Passionate Inscription: Love in the Performance of Suicide

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Title Passionate Inscription: Love in the Performance of Suicide
Author McKay, Kathy; De Leo, Diego
Book Title Making Sense of Suicide
Editor Kathy McKay and Jann E Schlimme
Year Published 2011
Place of publication United Kingdom
Publisher Inter-Disciplinary Press
Abstract In suicide mythology, suicides performed for reasons of forbidden, unrequited or rejected love have been largely romanticised and more likely forgiven. This presentation will analyse the literature surrounding the ways in which love and suicide have been inscribed on male and female bodies. Traditionally, love suicides have predominantly concerned heterosexual love; the woman inspires the emotions, the man acts upon his desires. Consequently, religious and social theorists have warned about the dangers of love and the corresponding dangers of women. Love leaves men vulnerable; Adam's love for Eve made him eat the apple. Love creates confusion; Confucius believed chaos and disorder stemmed from the inability to control one's emotions. Love destroys social order; marriage was traditionally considered too important a social foundation in which to contemplate love. Without love, men were strong and certain, society ran smoothly. In this way, social order and emotional regularity were perceived to protect people, especially men, from suicide. Social order meant that desires needed to be denied, feelings of love could not be acted upon. If men were made vulnerable when they loved a woman, women needed to be chaste and distant so as to become unlovable. They could not tempt men into desire; they could not positively react to male desire. This interplay between desire and denial has become a dangerous game for young women in the modern world. However, love has been replaced with sex in meaning and in action. The suicides and self-harm performed for sexual reasons are not romanticised, nor do they place men in a position of weakness. Women have become vulnerable in a balance between shame and honour, reputation and reality. Socially-perceived goodness is considered to protect women from suicide – it appears that to lose one's goodness is to lose one's claim on life.
Peer Reviewed Yes
Published Yes
Alternative URI http://www.inter-disciplinary.net/probing-the-boundaries/making-sense-of/suicide/
Chapter Number 10
Page from 69
Page to 78
ISBN 9781848880689
Date Accessioned 2011-10-17
Date Available 2011-11-08T08:01:56Z
Language en_AU
Research Centre Australian Institute for Suicide Research and Prevention
Faculty Griffith Health Faculty
Subject Social and Community Psychology
URI http://hdl.handle.net/10072/41444
Publication Type Book Chapters
Publication Type Code b1

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